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SHARED STRENGTH: NAVIGATING RA AS A COUPLE

Living with Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA) is a journey of constant adaptation, but when both partners in a marriage share the diagnosis, it creates a unique dynamic of shared understanding and collective challenges. Stace was diagnosed two years ago, while my own journey began much further back in 2009. From our past conversations, I’ve shared how our faith and the “Guided By Grace” blog serve as anchors through the flares and infusions.

Sharing a chronic illness like RA can actually strengthen a relationship if approached as a team. Here is a blog post draft that reflects our shared journey.

Two Hearts, One Diagnosis: Walking the RA Path Together

They say marriage is about becoming one, but we never expected that to include sharing an autoimmune disease. I’ve lived with Rheumatoid Arthritis since 2009, navigating years of outpatient infusions and learning to manage the unpredictable fatigue that feels like hitting an immovable wall. When Stace received his own diagnosis two years ago, our world shifted again. Suddenly, we weren’t just a patient and a supporter; we were two teammates fighting the same external “third entity” in our marriage.

Finding Strength in Shared Understanding

One of the hardest parts of RA is its invisibility; it can be exhausting trying to explain why you’re too tired to move when you “look fine”. Between us, that explanation is no longer needed. We understand the morning stiffness that only improves once you start moving, and the way chronic pain can make a good night’s sleep feel like a luxury.

We’ve learned that “dyadic coping”—sharing stresses and problem-solving together—leads to better relationship quality and lower psychological distress. We don’t just sympathize; we empathize because we both know what it’s like when your body feels like it’s working against you.

Adapting Our Daily Walk

Our daily routines have had to evolve to meet us where we are. Some days, we are both “warriors,” and other days, we have to give each other grace when the energy isn’t there.

  • Rebalancing the Load: We’ve had to revisit how we handle chores. If one of us is having a flare, the other might take on more, or we simply break large tasks into smaller, more manageable bursts.
  • Embracing Practical Help: We aren’t afraid to use tools that lighten the load, like jar grips or ordering groceries for curbside pickup to save our energy for more meaningful time together.
  • Keeping the Joy: RA can easily eclipse common interests, so we make it a point to keep our simple traditions alive. Whether it’s sharing our morning coffee or a quiet “date night” streaming a movie, these moments remind us that our marriage is about more than just managing a disease.

Guided by Grace

Living with RA is a challenge, not just a struggle. While the journey is difficult physically, mentally, and spiritually, we find that our faith provides the resilience needed to face each day. We’ve learned to be patient with ourselves and each other, understanding that we won’t always have all the answers.

Our journey together may be marked by RA, but it is defined by love, patience, and a “warrior spirit” that refuses to let the disease take center stage.

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  1. FINDING STRENGTH ON MY JOURNEY WITH RA
  2. LIVING WITH FIBROMYALGIA: AJOURNEY OF STRENGTH, FAITH, AND PERSEVERANCE
  3. GOOD MORNING & HAPPY WEDNESDAY
  4. Following Jesus in a Distracted World
  5. THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY: A FRESH START WRAPPED IN GRACE
  6. GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL
  7. HOW TO BEGIN READING THE BIBLE USING THE S.O.A.P. BIBLE STUDY METHOD
  8. WORD OF THE YEAR INSTEAD OF A RESOLUTION
  9. GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!
  10. Guided By Grace About

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Finding Strength on My Journey with RA

Medical Disclaimer: This information is for educational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a healthcare provider for medical concerns or treatment changes

Living with Rheumatoid Arthritis is a path marked by resilience and constant adaptation, and a deep reliance on God. My journey took a significant turn in 2009 when I first visited a rheumatologist. Since then, I have navigated a long road of various pain medications, and I am now transitioning into a new phase of treatment: outpatient infusion therapy.

Understanding Infusion Therapy

The image shows the clinical outpatient room I am in. There are several large brown leather infusion recliners, an IV pole with medical equipment, a television mounted on the wall, and various medical utility carts and bins.

For many, outpatient infusions become the next step when oral medications no longer provide sufficient relief. These treatments deliver potent biologic medications directly into the bloodstream, bypassing the digestive system for 100% absorption. This targeted approach can be more effective at reducing severe symptoms, such as chronic inflammation and joint damage, compared to traditional pills.

During an infusion session, you can typically expect:

  • A Professional Setting: Treatments occur in a specialized clinic or suite where medical staff monitor your vitals throughout the process.
  • Comfort: Most sessions take place in comfortable recliners. You can often relax, read, or use Wi-Fi during the session, which can last anywhere from 30 minutes to four hours.
  • Support: Unlike self-administered treatments, you have immediate access to healthcare professionals who can address any concerns or mild side effects, like fatigue or a slight headache.

Preparation the Day Before

  • Hydrate Intensively: Drink plenty of water in the 24 hours leading up to your appointment. Proper hydration makes it much easier for nurses to find a suitable vein for the IV.
  • Avoid Dehydrators: Stay away from coffee or alcohol the day before, as these can dehydrate the body.

On the Day of Treatment

  • Warm Your Veins: If you often have difficult IV starts, apply a warm pack to your veins before the nurse attempts the stick. Heat helps plump up veins and can also feel good on arthritic hands.
  • Eat a Light Meal: Have a nutritious but light meal or snack before your session to maintain energy levels and prevent nausea or dizziness.
  • Dress in Layers: Infusion suites can often feel cool. Wear loose-fitting, soft clothing and layers (like a zip-up hoodie or cardigan) to easily roll up sleeves and regulate your body temperature.

Essential “Infusion Bag” Items

  • Comfort Staples: Pack your own cozy blanket, a neck pillow for resting, and even thick socks or slippers if the clinic allows.
  • Personal Care: The clinical environment can be dry. Bring lip balm, moisturizer, and eye drops (like the TheraTears) to stay comfortable.
  • Distractions: Bring a tablet, headphones for music or podcasts, or a physical book to pass the time during sessions that can last several hours. You might also find comfort in your Scripture Journal for quiet reflection.
  • Tech Needs: Remember to pack chargers or a portable power bank for your electronic devices.

Throughout the Session

  • Speak Up: If you feel any discomfort, a chill from the IV, or any new symptoms during the process, inform your nursing team immediately.
  • Post-Infusion Monitoring: Track how you feel in a simple notebook or on your phone. Note any mild side effects like fatigue or headaches, as these are common but typically resolve quickly.

Managing Daily Life and Pain

While medical treatments are vital, small daily habits can also offer relief:

  • Warm Water Therapy: A long, warm shower or bath can be one of the safest ways to reduce morning stiffness. The heat improves circulation, delivering oxygen and nutrients to sore joints while relaxing tight muscles.
  • Joint Protection: It is important to listen to your body’s warning signals. Experts recommend avoiding activities that require a strong grip and using your strongest joints possible to complete tasks.
  • Self-Compassion: Chronic pain can be isolating. Shifting your internal dialogue to focus on what you can do, rather than what you can’t, is a powerful tool for resilience.

Walking by Faith, Not by Sight

Chronic pain can be a heavy burden to carry alone, but we are never meant to carry it by ourselves. Turning our worries over to God brings a supernatural peace that medical treatments alone cannot provide.

Faith changes how we view our daily struggles with RA by:

  • Renewing Our Strength: When physical energy fails, resting in God’s presence provides a deep spiritual refreshment that helps us face the next hour.
  • Shifting Our Focus: Prayer and reflection move our eyes away from physical limitations and point them toward God’s infinite grace and daily blessings.
  • Providing Community: Sharing our burdens with a church or prayer group reminds us that we are lifted up by others who care for us.

Anchored in Faith

In the midst of physical challenges, I find great comfort in my faith. Scripture reminds us that we are never alone in our struggles:

  • Psalm 30:2: “Lord my God, I called to you for help, and you healed me”.
  • Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”.
  • Proverbs 17:22: “A joyful heart is good medicine”.

The road with RA isn’t always easy, but each step forward is a victory. Whether through new medical treatments or the support of a faith community, there is always hope for a fulfilling life.

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  2. THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY: A FRESH START WRAPPED IN GRACE
  3. GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL
  4. HOW TO BEGIN READING THE BIBLE USING THE S.O.A.P. BIBLE STUDY METHOD
  5. WORD OF THE YEAR INSTEAD OF A RESOLUTION
  6. GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!
  7. Guided By Grace About

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Living with Fibromyalgia: A Journey of Strength, Faith, and Perseverance

In 2003, my life changed with two words I had never expected to hear: fibromyalgia diagnosis. At the time, I didn’t fully understand what it meant. I only knew that my body hurt constantly, my exhaustion felt unbearable, and no amount of sleep ever seemed to help. For years before the diagnosis, I felt like I was fighting a battle no one else could see.

Fibromyalgia is often called an “invisible illness,” and that description could not be more accurate. From the outside, people may think you look fine. They cannot see the burning pain in your muscles, the stiffness in your joints, the migraines, the brain fog, or the overwhelming fatigue that can make even simple daily tasks feel impossible.

When I was diagnosed in 2003, there was far less awareness about fibromyalgia than there is today. Many people did not understand it. Some questioned whether it was even real. That made the journey even harder because, along with the physical pain, there was emotional pain too. It is difficult trying to explain an illness that others cannot see or fully understand.

Over the years, I have learned that living with fibromyalgia requires constant adjustment. Some days are manageable, while other days feel like climbing a mountain just to get out of bed. There are moments when the pain flares unexpectedly and steals the plans I had for the day. Fibromyalgia teaches you to slow down, listen to your body, and extend grace to yourself.

One of the hardest parts has been mourning the life I once had. Chronic illness changes things. It changes routines, relationships, energy levels, and sometimes even dreams. But through the struggle, I have also discovered strength I never knew I possessed.

I have learned the importance of celebrating small victories. On difficult days, success may simply mean making it through the day with courage. I have learned to appreciate moments of peace, rest, laughter, and support from those who truly care.

Faith has also carried me through some of my darkest moments. There were nights filled with tears, frustration, and exhaustion when I questioned why this journey had become part of my life. Yet even in the pain, I found comfort knowing I was never alone. God’s strength became my strength when I felt weak.

One scripture that has encouraged me throughout this journey is:

“My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9

That verse reminds me that even when my body feels fragile, I can still walk forward with hope.

Living with fibromyalgia since 2003 has not been easy, but it has taught me resilience, compassion, patience, and faith. To anyone else living with chronic pain or invisible illness: you are not alone. Your pain is real. Your struggle matters. And even on the hardest days, your life still holds purpose, value, and beauty.

Fibromyalgia may be part of my story, but it does not define who I am. I am stronger than the pain, and I will continue moving forward one day at a time.

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  1. Following Jesus in a Distracted World
  2. THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY: A FRESH START WRAPPED IN GRACE
  3. GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL
  4. HOW TO BEGIN READING THE BIBLE USING THE S.O.A.P. BIBLE STUDY METHOD
  5. WORD OF THE YEAR INSTEAD OF A RESOLUTION
  6. GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!
  7. Guided By Grace About

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GOOD MORNING & HAPPY WEDNESDAY!

We have officially made it to the middle of the week. Often, Wednesday is labeled as “hump day”—a hurdle we just need to get over to reach the weekend. But when we live by faith, every single day is a gift from God meant to be opened, celebrated, and used for His glory. You don’t have to just “survive” the rest of this week; you can thrive in His grace.

If you are feeling a bit tired, overwhelmed, or stuck in the mid-week routine, take a deep breath and remember: God’s mercies are new every morning. He has already given you the strength, clarity, and peace you need to handle whatever lands on your plate today.

Mid-Week Scripture Reflection

“In the morning, Lord, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait expectantly.”
— Psalm 5:3

Take comfort in knowing that your prayers do not fall on deaf ears. Give Him your worries this morning, and watch expectantly for how He moves in your life today.

A Quick Wednesday Morning Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for waking me up to see this beautiful Wednesday. I praise You for Your unwavering faithfulness and protection. As I move through the busy moments of this day, I ask that You quiet my mind and fill my heart with Your perfect peace.

Give me the wisdom to make good decisions, the strength to overcome hurdles, and a spirit of kindness toward everyone I meet. Order my steps today, Lord, and let Your light shine through my actions. I place my day, my family, and my future into Your hands.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Mid-Week Encouragement for You

  • You are exactly where growth begins: Do not discourage small beginnings or quiet progress.
  • Let go of the rush: Showing up faithfully and calmly matters much more than rushing forward blindly.
  • God is already ahead of you: He has already stepped into your afternoon and evening, preparing the way.

May your day be filled with unexpected blessings, steady confidence, and a deep sense of calm. Go out and shine His light!

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  2. THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY: A FRESH START WRAPPED IN GRACE
  3. GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL
  4. HOW TO BEGIN READING THE BIBLE USING THE S.O.A.P. BIBLE STUDY METHOD
  5. WORD OF THE YEAR INSTEAD OF A RESOLUTION
  6. GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!
  7. Guided By Grace About

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Following Jesus in a Distracted World

In a world filled with noise, pressure, and endless distractions, the call to follow Jesus remains simple, powerful, and life-changing. Following Christ is not merely about attending church or knowing Bible verses—it is about surrendering our hearts daily and walking closely with Him in every part of life.

Jesus Still Calls People to Follow Him

When Jesus walked along the shores of Galilee, He called ordinary people with extraordinary words: “Follow Me.” Fishermen left their nets. Tax collectors left their tables. Broken people found purpose in His presence.

That same invitation still stands today.

Jesus Christ does not call perfect people. He calls willing hearts. You do not need to have everything figured out before coming to Him. Faith begins with a simple yes.

Following Jesus Requires Trust

There are moments when following Jesus feels easy, especially when prayers are answered quickly and life feels peaceful. But true discipleship is revealed during uncertainty.

Trusting Jesus means believing He is good even when life is difficult.

Sometimes God leads us away from comfort so He can lead us closer to Himself. Faith grows when we continue walking with Him despite fear, disappointment, or unanswered questions.

The beautiful truth is this: Jesus never asks us to walk alone.

Daily Ways to Follow Jesus

Following Christ is not only about major life decisions. It is found in everyday obedience.

Here are a few practical ways to grow closer to Him daily:

  • Spend time in prayer before starting your day.
  • Read Scripture consistently, even if only a few verses.
  • Show kindness and forgiveness to others.
  • Worship God in both good and difficult seasons.
  • Serve people with humility and compassion.
  • Stay connected to a community of believers.

Small acts of faithfulness often produce the greatest spiritual growth over time.

Grace for the Journey

Many believers struggle with guilt because they think following Jesus means never failing. But Christianity is not built on human perfection—it is built on God’s grace.

There will be days when you stumble. Days when your faith feels weak. Days when you wonder if God is still near.

He is.

Jesus is patient with those who seek Him sincerely. His mercy is new every morning, and His love does not run out when we fail.

The Reward of Following Christ

Following Jesus may cost comfort, popularity, or control, but what He gives in return is far greater:

  • Peace that circumstances cannot steal
  • Purpose beyond success or achievement
  • Hope in difficult seasons
  • Eternal life through Him

The closer we walk with Jesus, the more we discover that He is not just a part of life—He is life.

Final Encouragement

No matter where you are in your spiritual journey today, Jesus is still inviting you closer. You may feel weary, uncertain, or unworthy, but His invitation has not changed.

Take one step toward Him today.

Open your Bible. Whisper a prayer. Trust Him again.

Following Jesus is not about being flawless. It is about faithfully walking with the One who will never leave you behind.

Can you add bible verses to the above

Following Jesus in a Distracted World

In a world filled with noise, pressure, and endless distractions, the call to follow Jesus remains simple, powerful, and life-changing. Following Christ is not merely about attending church or knowing Bible verses—it is about surrendering our hearts daily and walking closely with Him in every part of life.

Jesus Still Calls People to Follow Him

When Jesus walked along the shores of Galilee, He called ordinary people with extraordinary words:

“Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” — Matthew 4:19 (NIV)

Fishermen left their nets. Tax collectors left their tables. Broken people found purpose in His presence.

That same invitation still stands today.

Jesus Christ does not call perfect people. He calls willing hearts. You do not need to have everything figured out before coming to Him. Faith begins with a simple yes.

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” — Luke 9:23 (NIV)

Following Jesus Requires Trust

There are moments when following Jesus feels easy, especially when prayers are answered quickly and life feels peaceful. But true discipleship is revealed during uncertainty.

Trusting Jesus means believing He is good even when life is difficult.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5 (NIV)

Sometimes God leads us away from comfort so He can lead us closer to Himself. Faith grows when we continue walking with Him despite fear, disappointment, or unanswered questions.

The beautiful truth is this: Jesus never asks us to walk alone.

“Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” — Hebrews 13:5 (NIV)

Daily Ways to Follow Jesus

Following Christ is not only about major life decisions. It is found in everyday obedience.

Here are a few practical ways to grow closer to Him daily:

  • Spend time in prayer before starting your day.
  • Read Scripture consistently, even if only a few verses.
  • Show kindness and forgiveness to others.
  • Worship God in both good and difficult seasons.
  • Serve people with humility and compassion.
  • Stay connected to a community of believers.

Small acts of faithfulness often produce the greatest spiritual growth over time.

“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” — Matthew 6:33 (NIV)

“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” — Psalms 119:105 (NIV)

Grace for the Journey

Many believers struggle with guilt because they think following Jesus means never failing. But Christianity is not built on human perfection—it is built on God’s grace.

There will be days when you stumble. Days when your faith feels weak. Days when you wonder if God is still near.

He is.

Jesus is patient with those who seek Him sincerely. His mercy is new every morning, and His love does not run out when we fail.

“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning.” — Lamentations 3:22–23 (NIV)

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” — 1 John 1:9 (NIV)

The Reward of Following Christ

Following Jesus may cost comfort, popularity, or control, but what He gives in return is far greater:

  • Peace that circumstances cannot steal
  • Purpose beyond success or achievement
  • Hope in difficult seasons
  • Eternal life through Him

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives.” — John 14:27 (NIV)

The closer we walk with Jesus, the more we discover that He is not just a part of life—He is life.

“I am the way and the truth and the life.” — John 14:6 (NIV)

Final Encouragement

No matter where you are in your spiritual journey today, Jesus is still inviting you closer. You may feel weary, uncertain, or unworthy, but His invitation has not changed.

Take one step toward Him today.

Open your Bible. Whisper a prayer. Trust Him again.

“Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” — James 4:8 (NKJV)

Following Jesus is not about being flawless. It is about faithfully walking with the One who will never leave you behind.

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” — Matthew 28:20 (NIV) 

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  1. THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY: A FRESH START WRAPPED IN GRACE
  2. GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL
  3. HOW TO BEGIN READING THE BIBLE USING THE S.O.A.P. BIBLE STUDY METHOD
  4. WORD OF THE YEAR INSTEAD OF A RESOLUTION
  5. GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!
  6. Guided By Grace About

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog post! May the words inspire and uplift all who read them. Your support and interest mean the world to me, and I’m grateful for every moment you spend here. Stay tuned for more, and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!

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THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY: A FRESH START WRAPPED IN GRACE

Friday is finally here — and for many of us, it feels like a deep breath after a long week. The alarms were early, the schedules were packed, the stress was real, and yet somehow… we made it.

There’s something special about Friday mornings. The air feels lighter. Hope feels closer. Even the coffee tastes a little better. Friday reminds us that we survived every challenge the week threw at us, and by the grace of God, we’re still standing.

No matter what this week looked like for you — whether it was productive, exhausting, emotional, or uncertain — today is a reminder that every new sunrise is another opportunity to begin again. You may be tired, but you are not defeated. You may feel stretched, but you are still blessed.

Sometimes we rush into the weekend without pausing to thank God for carrying us through the hard moments. But take a second today to reflect on how far you’ve come. Every closed door, every delay, every lesson, and every victory had a purpose. God was present in all of it.

Friday is also a beautiful invitation to rest.

Not just physical rest, but spiritual rest. A chance to release anxiety, stop overthinking, and trust that God is already working on the things you’ve been praying about. You don’t have to carry every burden into the weekend. Lay it down. Let peace enter your heart again.

If this week was difficult, remember this:
Your story is not over.
Your breakthrough could be closer than you think.
Your prayers have not gone unheard.

And if this week was good, celebrate it with gratitude. Too often we focus only on what’s missing instead of thanking God for what’s already here — the breath in our lungs, the people we love, the strength to keep going, and the gift of another Friday.

As you head into the weekend, choose joy.
Choose peace.
Choose faith over fear.
Choose to believe that better days are ahead.

Friday Blessing

May your Friday be filled with peace that calms your soul, joy that lifts your spirit, and strength for every step ahead. May God open doors no one can shut, restore what has been draining you, and surround you with favor, love, and unexpected blessings. May this weekend refresh your heart and remind you that brighter days are still coming.

Bible Verse for Friday

“This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalm 118:24

Happy Friday!
Walk into today with gratitude, confidence, and expectation — because God is not finished with your story yet.

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  4. GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!
  5. Guided By Grace About

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GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL SOUL

Good morning to the early risers, the dream chasers, the tired hearts, and the quiet warriors still finding the strength to keep going.

No matter what yesterday looked like, today is a brand-new page. The sun rose again, and so did you. That alone is something worth celebrating.

Maybe your morning started peacefully with coffee and silence. Maybe it started with alarms, chaos, responsibilities, or heavy thoughts you carried through the night. Either way, you made it here. You are breathing, living, and standing in a fresh moment filled with new possibilities.

Take a second today to slow down and appreciate the little things:

  • The warmth of your coffee
  • The sound of birds outside your window
  • The fresh morning air
  • The chance to begin again

Too often, we rush through mornings already overwhelmed by everything waiting for us. But mornings are sacred. They are reminders that life keeps moving, healing keeps happening, and hope still exists.

“This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalm 118:24

If nobody has told you lately:
You are stronger than you think.
You are more capable than your fears say you are.
And your story is still unfolding in beautiful ways you cannot yet see.

Today does not have to be perfect to be meaningful. You do not have to have all the answers. Just take the next step. Smile a little more. Breathe a little deeper. Trust that even small progress matters.

And while you’re moving through your day, remember to spread kindness. A simple “good morning,” a smile, or a kind word can completely change someone else’s day. The world needs more warmth, more compassion, and more people willing to shine light into someone else’s darkness.

So here’s your reminder this morning:
Drink your water.
Protect your peace.
Pray if you need to.
Laugh when you can.
Rest when you must.
And never stop believing that better days are ahead.

May your morning be filled with peace.
May your mind be clear.
May your heart feel lighter.
And may today bring unexpected joy, new opportunities, and moments that make you smile for no reason at all.

Good morning, and have a truly beautiful day.

Bible Study Tools I Use

  • NIV Bible
  • King James Bible
  • www. biblegateway.com
  • www.biblestudytools.com
  • Map Pencils
  • College Ruled Spiral Notebook
  • Ballpoint Pens
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HOW TO BEGIN READING THE BIBLE USING THE S.O.A.P. BIBLE STUDY METHOD

Have you tried MANY different methods of Bible study over the years only to find they didn’t work well for you? There seems to be one for every level of experience, and that is always a great thing! But the SOAP Bible Study Method is one of my favorites because of its simplicity while, at the same time, allowing one to take Bible study as far as they want to go with it.

It allows you to draw from scripture what the Lord wants to show you personally, and not just what someone else experienced. You are not limited in this method and can continue to use it as you grow in your walk and in as you grow in your study of the Word.

So why the SOAP Bible Study Method? What is it exactly?

The SOAP Bible Study stands for:

S – Scripture

O- Observation

A- Application

P- Prayer

For individuals seeking an effective approach to Bible study, the S.O.A.P. Bible Study Method provides a systematic framework for engaging with scripture.

Many readers can find the prospect of studying the Bible daunting due to its complexity and depth. It is common to lose motivation or become overwhelmed when attempting to read the Bible from start to finish. However, it is important to recognize that the Bible is not a single book, but rather a collection of works—books, songs, and poetry—all inspired to communicate enduring messages of love and faith. As such, it is most productively studied in manageable sections.

What is the S.O.A.P. Bible Study Method?

The S.O.A.P. method stands for Scripture, Observation, Application, and Prayer. This approach can be integrated into any existing study plan, and encourages reflective journaling based on verses that resonate personally.

Below is an overview of each step in the S.O.A.P. Bible Study Method:

Scripture

Begin by reading the selected passage, either aloud or using a different translation for enhanced understanding. Clarify its origin: Is the text from the Old or New Testament, and what genre does it represent (historical, narrative, prophetic, poetry, letter)? Identify the author and audience, as well as the time period in which it was written—introductory sections in many Bibles or reputable online resources may assist. Writing out the passage helps facilitate detailed attention to its content and meaning.

Observation

This step requires careful analysis of the passage—highlight key words, note instructions or themes, and answer questions like: Who is speaking? What is the context? How was it understood then? What attributes of God are shown? Are there examples or warnings for today? Identify promises or praiseworthy elements.

Application

Apply the insights gained to your current circumstances. Reflect on how the passage is relevant to your life, whether through encouragement, instruction, command, or prompting positive change. Remain attentive to guidance on areas for personal growth and ways to benefit others by emulating faithful individuals described in scripture. Consistent engagement with this step facilitates ongoing transformation and alignment with spiritual principles.

Prayer

Conclude by praying for support in implementing changes prompted by the scripture. Seek strength for personal growth and transformation, offer praise for God’s character and actions, and confess any unaddressed shortcomings. Request assistance for challenges in your life, pray for the needs of others—including friends, family, and leaders—and ask for guidance in consistently applying biblical teachings.

The S.O.A.P. Bible Study Method offers a practical, organized pathway for developing a deeper understanding of scripture and integrating its lessons into daily life.

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Tips when using the Bible Study

In the SOAP Bible study method, prayer is how you close your time with God. However, I want to encourage you to open with prayer, as well. Whenever I open the Word of God, I pray that His Holy Spirit will illuminate and guide my time in Bible Study. Pray for wisdom – He promises to give wisdom abundantly when we as (James 1:5).

Choose to move through a specific book of the Bible with this soap bible study method, rather than skipping around. The Bible already breaks up chapters into sections/paragraphs. You don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Follow the natural breaks in each chapter.

The more consistently you practice this, the more natural it becomes to recognize the ways God desires you to grow and change.

Prayer

  • Ask God to help you put into action the changes He is prompting in your daily life. Pray for the strength and power to follow through, and that He would use the scripture to transform you to be more like Jesus.
  • Praise God for His character and all He has done—acknowledge Him as King, Lord, loving, gracious, and express your gratitude.
  • Confess any sin that remains unaddressed in your life. Repent by choosing to turn away from sin and move toward God.
  • Bring to God any area where you need His guidance or support.
  • Remember to pray for your friends, family, leaders, and all those you care about—they need prayer too.
  • Ask God to show you how to live out His Word, referencing James 1:22, and become a doer, not just a hearer.

If you would like a free S.O.A.P. Bible Study Template click on S.O.A.P. Bible Study

As you integrate the SOAP Bible study method into your routine, remember that true transformation comes through both reflection and action. Consistency in approaching God’s Word with an open heart and a prayerful spirit will deepen your relationship with Him. Let each study session be an opportunity not only to learn, but also to grow in faith and put His teachings into practice in your everyday life.

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WORD OF THE YEAR INSTEAD OF A RESOLUTION

As the year comes to an end and the holiday bustle subsides, you might be reflecting on New Year’s resolutions, writing down dreams, or setting new goals. Another way to welcome the year with expectancy is to define a “word for the year.” In case you’ve never heard of it, typically, a “word for the year” is something you are believing for in the coming year—a word or theme that stood out during your time with God. It’s a word you can continue to pray for throughout the year or use to help filter your decisions and remind you of what’s important. 

A “Word of the Year” is more than a goal; it’s a focus, a prayer, and a way to keep your heart aligned with God’s plan for your life. Let’s explore why this simple practice can transform your year and how to incorporate it into your Bible journaling.

Here is a step-by-step guide to help you narrow down your word.

Step One: Schedule and set aside a time for prayer. Turn off your notifications, tune out the distractions, and take time to connect with God. Every person connects with God differently, so decide what enriches you the most. Do you connect with God best in nature? When worship music is playing? When there is silence? Take time to examine what makes you feel closest to God. 

Step Two: As you listen and pray, simply enjoy God’s presence without any pressure to figure it all out. If any inspiring thoughts or Scriptures come to mind during that time, jot them down. If nothing stands out to you on the first day, don’t get discouraged. Keep carving out time to connect with God and repeat the process. Most likely, you’ll sense a theme forming.


Step Three: As you listen and pray, also take time to reflect. Look back on the previous year and ask yourself questions like: 

  1. What did God teach me?
  2. How did I grow? 
  3. What is there to celebrate? 

Then, take time to reflect on the new year. Ask yourself questions like: 

  1. Who do I want to become this year? 
  2. What prayers do I want to see answered? 
  3. If I could sum up my hopes for the new year in three words, what would they be?

After you write down your thoughts, look for common threads. Take the three words you listed and add any others that come to mind based on the theme. Circle the ones that stand out the most and research the words. Notice any other variations that emerge. Continue to narrow your list until you land on the word that stands out the most. Write down your word and hang it in a place you’ll see it regularly. Maybe your word is “trust.” Visibly seeing your word can remind you to trust God when life is challenging in the coming year. Or perhaps it serves as a reminder to pray for a steady trust in Christ to form in you throughout the year. 

A Prayer as You Begin: 

.Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You with open hearts as this new year approaches. Thank You for Your faithfulness in the past and Your promises for the future. Lord, You know every detail of our lives—the joys, challenges, growth areas, and dreams. We ask You to speak clearly and gently, revealing a word or theme that will guide, encourage, and draw us closer to You in 2026. Make it a word rooted in Your truth, one that we can return to in prayer, Scripture, and daily life. Help us listen for Your voice above all others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  1. Clarity in the Chaos
    Life can feel overwhelming, with countless distractions pulling us in different directions. A Word of the Year acts as a compass, keeping you centered on a spiritual theme or area of growth.
  2. Spiritual Growth
    Whether it’s “Faith,” “Peace,” “Trust,” or “Joy,” a Word of the Year invites God to work in a specific area of your life. It becomes a prayerful focus, shaping how you read Scripture and seek Him.
  3. A Gentle Reminder
    Instead of feeling pressure to check off resolutions, a Word of the Year gently reminds you to embrace growth at your own pace. It’s an invitation, not an obligation.

Why Choose a Word of the Year?

How to Choose Your Word

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  • Pray for Guidance
    Begin by asking God to reveal the word He wants to shape your life. Listen for a theme that resonates in your heart or appears in your Bible reading.

Reflect on the Past Year
Consider where God has brought you and where you sense Him leading you next. Are you being called to surrender? To trust? To rejoice?
Be Open to Surprises
Sometimes the word you need isn’t the one you’d expect. Let the Holy Spirit guide you, even if the word feels challenging. 
Consider God’s Character
A meaningful approach is to choose a word inspired by one of God’s five key attributes revealed in Exodus 34:6–7. 
Bible Journaling Ideas for Your Word of the Year
Use Bible journaling to bring your Word of the Year to life. Whether you journal by hand or digitally, these prompts can help you reflect and grow:
Create a Cover Page for Your Word
Frame your Word of the Year with a Scripture that supports it. For example, if your word is “Hope,” use Romans 15:13: May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him.
Write a Prayer of Dedication
Journal a prayer asking God to use this word to transform your life. Decorate it with flowers, frames, or clusters to make it meaningful.
Reflect on Verses
Find and journal several verses that relate to your word. Write each one on a journal card and add them to a pocket or frame them on your page.
Track Your Progress
Create a monthly reflection page to record how your Word of the Year has shown up in your life. Look for small victories, lessons, or areas of growth.
Make a Vision Board
Incorporate your word into a creative layout with images, verses, and prayers that inspire you. For example, if your word is “Abundance,” include imagery of harvests or overflowing baskets.
Memorize Scripture
Choose one verse related to your word each month and commit it to memory. Journal about how it changes your perspective.

If one of these (or another) stirs your heart, pray over it and seek a supporting Bible verse to anchor it. God is faithful—He will guide you as you seek Him (Jeremiah 29:13).

I’d love to hear what word the Lord gives you!

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog post! May the words inspire and uplift all who read them. Your support and interest mean the world to me, and I’m grateful for every moment you spend here. Stay tuned for more, and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!” Blessings, Margarita & Stace

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GOD IS SO GOOD – ALL THE TIME!

START YOUR DAY RIGHT DAILY DEVOTION

A few weeks ago, something (we still don’t know what) knocked all four of our beehives clean over. Stace and I went out in half bee suits to try to stand them back up, and… well, let’s just say the bees were NOT in a forgiving mood. We ran for our lives and left the hives lying on their sides like defeated soldiers.

The next weekend we came back prepared: full bee suits, gloves the whole deal. fully suited up, ready to set the heavy boxes upright. I’m so thankful Stace was there to help lift them. Of course, the bees were furious all over again. By the time we got to the very last hive we were absolutely covered (head-to-toe buzzing carpet of bees). When I bent down to grab the lid, the veil on my suit touched my chin for half a second, and yep—one determined little bee stung me right on the chin.

We finished the job by the grace of God,  we went back to the storeroom like two sweaty marshmallows, and started peeling off our suits. That’s when things went sideways. I told Stace, “I don’t feel right; I need to sit down.”  And then the world went black. Next thing I remember is Stace gently tapping my cheek saying my name over and over. I had passed out cold and face-planted on the concrete. He had already stabbed me with the EpiPen and was on the phone with 911.

Here’s what I want you to know: through every terrifying second, a supernatural peace flooded my soul. I couldn’t even feel fear. All I could do was pray silently, “Lord, hold me. Hold Stace. Don’t let him carry this alone.” And God answered with a calm that makes no earthly sense.

The ambulance ride was a first for me. Lights, sirens, IVs, monitors—the whole dramatic package. Stace followed right behind in the truck and called our youngest, Kristen, who spread the word to James and Jennifer.

I just kept smiling at the paramedics and whispering, “Thank You, Jesus. Thank You for every breath.” Stace followed the ambulance the whole way, white-knuckled but steady, because the same God who was carrying me was carrying him too.

 At the ER they watched me like hawks, ran an MRI to make sure I hadn’t cracked my skull when I went down (thankfully all clear), and pumped me full of more meds.

Kristen and Matt came and sat with us. After several hours they said I was good to go home—just a severe allergic reaction doing what severe allergic reactions do.

I’m telling you all this because through every single second of it (the panic in Stace’s voice, the lights in the ambulance, waking up on the floor not knowing what happened)—I felt an unbelievable calm. I just kept whispering, “Lord, take care of me. Take care of Stace. Don’t let him worry.” And He did. He kept my heart steady when it had every reason to race, gave Stace clarity when he could’ve frozen, and brought me back home safe to tell the story.

God is good. All the time. Even when you’re lying on a storeroom floor covered in dust with a bee sting swelling your face. Especially then.

Thank you, Jesus, for every breath I’m still taking. And thank you, Stace, for being my hero that day. 

(Also, note to self: order new bee suits with better veils. Immediately.) 

 Hours later the doctor sent me home with a clean bill of health and a brand-new respect for how fast life can turn. But more than that, they sent me home with a story I’ll tell for the rest of my days: When the enemy meant a single bee sting for destruction, God used it to show His power, His presence, and His overwhelming love. 

I’m alive tonight because the Lord is faithful.

I’m breathing because He is merciful.

I’m still here to love my husband, hug my kids, and tend those crazy bees because my God is greater than any reaction, any fear, any close call. 

If you’re reading this and you’re scared tonight – if life has knocked you flat and you can’t see how you’re going to get back up – hear me: The same God who caught me on a dusty storeroom floor is reaching for you right now.

He is good – all the time.

And all the time – He is good. 

Psalms 100:5 “For the Lord is good and his love endures forever, his faithfulness continues through all generation”

Thank You, Jesus, for every heartbeat You’ve given me since that day. I will never stop praising You. And Stace, my hero, thank you for never letting go. I love you beyond words. 

Never forget: God turns the sting into a story, and the story into glory. 

Keep trusting Him. He’s writing yours too.

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  • NIV Bible
  • King James Bible
  • www. biblegateway.com
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Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog post! May the words inspire and uplift all who read them. Your support and interest mean the world to me, and I’m grateful for every moment you spend here. Stay tuned for more, and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments!” Blessings, Margarita & Stace

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