MARRIED TWO WOMEN / GENESIS 4:19

(KJV) Genesis 4:19

And Lamech took unto him two wives: the name of the one was Adah, and the name of the other Zillah.

God established a clear blueprint for marriage in the Garden of Eden. He created one man and one woman, joining them together in a perfect, monogamous union. Genesis 2:24 beautifully defines this standard: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.”

But sin ruptures perfect design.

In Genesis 4:19, we witness the first formal departure from God’s marital blueprint: “And Lamech took two wives. The name of the one was Adah, and the name of the other Zillah.”

Lamech, a descendant of Cain, became the first man in scripture to reject God’s principle of monogamy. By taking two wives, he prioritized personal desire over divine order. This was not a cultural evolution; it was a spiritual rebellion.

Lamech’s choice marks a major turning point in human history. Once sin entered the world, its effects quickly spilled into the most sacred institution on earth: the family.

When we look at the legacy of Lamech, we see a rapid descent into deeper immorality and violence. Immediately following the mention of his marriages, scripture records Lamech boasting to his wives about murdering a young man.

The compromise of God’s design for marriage immediately led to:

• The devaluation of covenant: Marriage shifted from a holy partnership to a tool for personal gratification.
• Fractured family dynamics: Introducing polygamy sowed early seeds of jealousy, rivalry, and division that we see plague families throughout the Old Testament.
• A culture of defiance: Brokenness in the home quickly translated into a broken, violent society.

Lamech’s story serves as a sober warning. When we compromise on God’s standards for marriage and family, the consequences ripple through generations. God’s boundaries are not meant to restrict our happiness, but to protect our hearts and our homes.

Jesus later reaffirmed this original blueprint in Matthew 19, pointing back to the beginning—one man and one woman, bound in holy covenant. In a world that continually redefines love, family, and commitment, our call as believers is to return to the design of the Creator.

Heavenly Father,

We thank You for the beautiful gift of marriage and family, instituted by Your hand in the beginning. Forgive us for the times our culture, and our own hearts, drift from Your perfect design. We pray for modern marriages and homes today. Protect them from the creeping influences of sin, compromise, and immorality.

Restore a deep reverence for the sacred covenant of marriage. Give husbands and wives the strength to remain faithful, loving, and united in a world that constantly pushes division. May our homes be places where Your truth is honored and Your peace resides.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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1. CAIN … HIS WIFE / GENESIS 4:17
2. CAIN WENT OUT FROM THE LORD’S PRESENCE / GENESIS 4:16
3. A MARK ON CAIN / GENESIS 4:15
4. NOW YOU ARE UNDER A CURSE / GENENSIS 4:11
5. YOUR BROTHER’S BLOOD CRIES OUT TO ME / GENESIS 4:10
6. IT DESIRES TO HAVE YOU / GENESIS 4:7
7. AN OFFERING TO THE LORD / GENESIS 4:3-5
8. ADAM LAY WITH HIS WIFE / GENESIS 4:1
9. HE DROVE THE MAN OUT / GENESIS 3:24
10. HE WILL CRUSH YOUR HEAD, AND YOU WILL STRIKE HIS HEEL / GENESIS 3:15
11. THE SERPENT DECEIVED ME / GENESIS 3:13
12. THEY HID / GENESIS 3:8
13. THEY REALIZED THEY WERE NAKED / GENEIS 3:7
14. LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER / GENESIS 2:24
15. HELPER SUITABLE FOR HIM / GENESIS 2:18
16. THE LORD GOD COMMANDED THE MAN / GENESIS 2:16
17. PUT HIM IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN / GENESIS 2:15
18. TREE OF LIFE / GENESIS 2:9
19. GARDEN IN THE EAST, IN EDEN / GENESIS 2:8
20. A LIVING BEING / GENESIS 2:7
21. THE ACCOUNT – THE LORD GOD / GENESIS 2:4
22. GOD BLESSED THE SEVENTH DAY / GENESIS 2:3
23. BE FRUITFUL AND INCREASE / GENESIS 1:28
24. THERE WAS EVENING, AND THERE WAS MORNING – THE FIRST DAY / GENESIS 1:5
25. IN THE BEGINNING GOD CREATED / GENESIS 1:1
26. IT WAS GOOD / GENESIS 1:10
27. HEART IS EVIL FROM CHILDHOOD / GENESIS 8:21
28. THE SONS OF GOD / GENESIS 6:2
29. HOW GREAT MAN’S WICKEDNESS /GENESIS 6:5
30. ADAM LIVED 930 YEARS / GENESIS 5:5
31. WRITTEN ACCOUNT OF ADAM’S LINE / GENESIS 5:1
32. KNOWING GOOD AND EVIL / GENESIS 3:22
33. GOD SAID LET US – LET US MAKE MAN / GENESIS 1:26
34. I WILL GREATLY INCREASE YOUR PAINS / GENESIS 3:16-19
35. SERVE AS SIGNS / GENESIS 1:14-15
36. LET THERE BE LIGHT / GENESIS 1:8
37. THE WOMAN … ATE IT … HER HUSBAND … WITH HER / GENESIS 3:6
38. YOU WILL BE LIKE GOD / GENESIS 3:5
39. YOU WILL NOT SURELY DIE / GENESIS 3:4
40. THE SERPENT / GENESIS 3:1
41. GUIDED BY GRACE HOME

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